The Bored Game

This Halloween, let's all enjoy a board bored game!

Things You Need:

1. Pen
2. Paper
3. Two or more bored people.

The game is very easy. You don't need to be super smart or super creative or super rich to understand and play this game. In fact, no one even needs to win (but you can change that, of course.) All you need is to be bored and you're all set.

I thought of this game when my friend and I were queuing for our school enrollment. We were there from morning to afternoon, so just imagine how tiring it was. We ran out of things to talk about and I don't like being bored. My motto is:

"Only boring people are bored."

So I tried to think of interesting ways to make that long line bearable. We both didn't have cell phones that time. Actually, we had nothing except pen and paper. That's when the idea hit me.  

Here's how to do it:

On the paper, draw a line, a circle, or anything. Remember; don't think of what you will draw. Just let your pen flow freely.

Give the pen and paper to player #2. Let him draw something out of that line.

See? Out of player #1's simple line, the player #2 thought of something more creative. (I know, my drawing is not very creative, but you get the idea.)

Player #2 should then draw another abstract line. And it's your turn to think of something from that line! Very simple, right?

You can go on and on and on and on until you occupied all the space on the paper or you got (bored?) with this game.  

 P.S- I played this game with my classmates while our teacher was lecturing. *wink*

Minimalist Birthday Gift

                                                      Source: fineartamerica.com via Jaye on Pinterest

A friend told me that someone close to her is celebrating his birthday next month. I got very excited. Yes, much more excited than she is!

Lots of gift ideas flooded my mind. I wanted her to do something sweet for him. I gave her unsolicited gift suggestions, but she kindly declined all of those. Ha-ha. (Well, at least all of those brainstorming inspired me to make this post.)

At first I hinted that she should buy a gift. She said "Is that really necessary?"

That friend of mine is a minimalist so I thought maybe she doesn't want to purchase something tangible. I tried a different approach, then. I suggested things like:

• Serenade him-  She's a great singer but she said she's shy to sing for him. So we had to cross this out. 
• Cook something- Give him a coupon that says Free Dinner and cook the food herself. She told me cooking was not an option because the last time she tried to cook for him, she was not very happy with the result.
• Make a video presentation- Too much hassle.
• Handicrafts- It's sweet to give someone something you made yourself, but still, she said NO. 

"Can't I just give him my love?" She asked.

Ah, yes. Of course she can give her heart and love to him. It's free and it's SUPER minimalist. But how can you give love, really? By telling him? Yes, that one thing, I guess. But wouldn't it be better to show him?

I'm the kind of person who loves surprises. She can love him every day of the year... but birthdays are special. It's when you "show"  a person you love him and not just "tell" him. That's why we do celebrations, right? So I continued thinking of gifts that won't give clutter and headaches in the future. 

This morning she showed me pictures of her on the beach. She was posing beside a name she wrote on the sand. It was "his" name. 

Well, that's when another idea hit me. E-greeting cards! I told her to edit the pictures and make e-greeting cards out of them. Or if she wants to do something more, she can make a PowerPoint Presentation.

Finally, finally, guys... She said YES! She will just try to find out how to make a PowerPoint Presentation with her ipad. Whew! I can now rest my mind in peace. 

I'd like to hear your gift ideas! Do you have something in mind, or something you did before, that will be great for a minimalist birthday gift?

Cooking

I mentioned in my last post that I was not a big fan of cooking. But now I am. I actually look forward to breakfast, lunch, and dinner. I love planning what to cook.

Since I have no fridge yet, I have a limited supply of foods. I only buy vegetables and canned goods. I rarely cook meat.

What I discovered is that cheese makes almost any food taste special. I tried to cook chopsuey but I had no meat, so I put cheese instead. It was superb!

Let me just share to you a photo of the spaghetti I cooked. It was made with simple ingredients. Spaghetti sauce, tomato sauce, ground pepper, onion and garlic, mushroom, burger patties.

The mushroom and burger patties were just left-over from the burger steak I made for lunch. I did not know what to do with them, and like I said, I had no fridge so I had to cook them that very same day. Good thing I remembered I bought some spaghetti noodles. 

No one taught me how to cook and reading about cooking wasn't really my kind of thing. So I guess we can say that I don't have much knowledge in cooking. But Albert Einstein said, "Imagination is more important than knowledge."

Never thought it would apply in cooking too! ^_^

Freedom

Last year, I wrote a post about wanting to be independent and having my freedom. I haven't really done that until two months ago.

I flew from Davao to Manila and lived in a boarding house. It was a very small room and it had no windows. I have this thing about windows. I just love them so much! And since that room had no window, I felt like I was in a prison. It was depressing. Not to mention that it was the first time I lived a hundred miles away from my family.

I also had to share the bathroom and the kitchen with the other boarders. I'm a very shy person so I'm not really comfortable meeting them every time I feel the call of nature or I have to cook my food.

Another things is that I got scared going out of my room because of a RAT. That boarding house has one super huge rat running around the kitchen all the time, scaring the boarders to death.

So after a month, I moved to a house in the province of Rizal. It is a two-storey apartment with a floor area of only 20sqm. I'm lucky because I'm the very first tenant who rented it. The wall paint is still fresh and clean. And guess what! The price is the same with the amount I pay for that tiny, prison-like room in Makati.

You see, I write for a living, so you have to understand that space is big deal for me. And windows? Yes, it has windows but unfortunately, the only view I could see is the neighbor's wall. I also have a terrace. But I have to look to the left before I could have a glimpse of the village playground.

Well, so far everything's going great and I just thank God for all of this. Here's what I learned so far while having my freedom.

• Freedom is not doing ALL the things that you want to do. It is choosing carefully what's right for you. 

• I actually know how to cook! You see, I'm the youngest in our family so I did not always have the chance to cook. I was scared, I guess. I didn't want them to criticize my cooking, so I did not even try. But since I only have myself to feed right now, I have nothing to lose. Haha.

• I now know what it feels like to go to a grocery store and get one item, put it in the basket, think for five minutes if it's worth buying, and then return it to the shelf. It was like that for almost every item!

• I got aware of my electrical and water consumption. I always try to find a way to save on those.

• I now know the wattage of all the gadgets and appliances I own! I was surprised that my laptop is only 30W. I thought it consumes too much electricity. On the other hand, the electric stove makes me want to faint with its 1000W. Argh!

• There's no one to clean my mess except myself. Ah, the price of freedom. ^__^

• I don't like electric fan. I barely use it. The downside? I've got mosquito bites on my legs! Good thing they don't leave scars.

• I'm almost 23 years old but people still think I'm too young to live on my own. Welcome to the Philippines. Haha.

• Always choose the head car when riding the MRT or LRT (train). It's not as crowded as the other cars.

• Cheese is AMAZING.

Motivational Passwords

Password.

It's very important to us. Our privacy depends on it. We use it everyday to gain access to our email accounts, social network accounts, and whatever there is on the internet that needs securing.

I first used the internet when I was thirteen years old. Since then, I only use two passwords whenever I sign up for something. I may have signed up on a site six years ago and forgot all about it, but I know I can still provide the correct password today because there are only two passwords to choose from!

I know a lot of people who constantly change their email accounts because they can't remember their passwords. I felt sorry for them.

But last week, I thought changing your password regularly could actually be good, "IF" you use words or phrases that motivate you. If you log in to your Facebook account five times a day, then it means you remind yourself of something positive five times a day!

Let's say you're an athlete and your goal is to bag the gold medal in your next competition. Change your password to "go4gold". Everyday, it will help remind you not to settle for the bronze or silver. You need to keep practicing to reach the GOLD.

An hour ago, I changed my Facebook password. Let's just hope I won't forget it.

How about you? Do you prefer having the same password for the rest of your life, or you constantly think of something unique to guard your accounts?

Sunrises and Sunsets

Sunrises were made to give us inspiration as we start our day.

And sunsets are prettier so that we'll know that even when darkness comes, beauty will surround us.

:)

Laughter

I was reading a Chicken Soup for the Soul book this morning, and a sentence made me laugh. Ok. I know, I know. Everybody laughs every now and then. So why bother taking up some space in this blog writing about it?

Well, I could make this short and straight just be telling you "Hey, this is my blog! I can write anything and whatever I want."

But nah. I'm not going to say that because I want to make you see the beautiful experience I had this morning.

You see, it was totally different for me. I FELT it like I've never had before. From the vibrations in my chest, to that magical sound that went up my throat, out to my barely opened lips. It was just a few short musical notes of laughter, yet it was just so beautiful (I've always hated the way I laughed before!). I never thought I would actually like my own laugh.

And it made me wonder about that word. Sometimes we just take laughter for granted. 'Oh, sure, laughter is the best medicine.' 'Oh yes, I heard it can make us look younger.' But do we sometimes take a moment to listen and appreciate the beauty of our laughs?

It's so natural and common and yet it is also a mystery. Imagine life without laughter. What if people are incapable to laugh? How would we express the feeling of happiness... of enjoyment... of victory?

Ah, I won't tire myself trying to imagine it. Because here I am, living, free to laugh whenever I feel like it. And I just made up my mind to spend the rest of my life having lots of it!




P.S - I tried to imitate that laugh I had this morning, but I couldn't.
         I guess each laughter is different from the other, which makes
         it more priceless!

Karen

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Today I want to introduce to you my soul sister, open friend, partner-in-crime, KAREN. She's also a minimalist (check out her blog) and she's a part-time writer, part-time businesswoman, part-time dreamer. I asked her a few questions about her journey in minimalism and I hope you will all enjoy it. :)


1. When did you decide you want to be a minimalist?

I feel like I have always been a minimalist, though I didn't know what it was called until I've read about it last Februrary... And it was only then that I decided to focus on living a life with less clutter.

2. How did it affect your life?

It has affected me greatly that I don't know how to put it in words. At one point, it has opened my eyes into a new perspective - that life can be more meaningful when you are less attracted to the clutters of life and become more aware of what's important.

3. What was your family's reaction?

My dad and siblings were so into it. My mom, not much. But my parents both grew up with a simple life, so even if my mom loves shopping, I was able to share with them the wonders of not buying *too much*. I guess we, as a family, can never be extreme minimalists. But I'm glad that I was able to impart with them the philosophy of minimalism, that we are able to be more appreciative of each other. 

4. Are there some things you think you could never give up?

Like things? I can't give up wearing headbands! And scarfs! And brooches! But I'm glad they are light-weight, it's easy to bring them anywhere ^_^ At first, it was books, but then I discovered the wonders of Amazon Kindle ^_^

5. What are your plans in the near future?

I want to work hard on becoming good in writing and singing. And then travel around-the-world with a backpack!!!

Flying With the Eagles

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It's true that you will find real happiness in simple things. This time, I found it by volunteering for a great cause! I am now a volunteer guide and OCP facilitator in Philippine Eagle Foundation. 

Philippine Eagle is the Philippine's national bird. Sadly, it is also endangered. There are only about 300 pairs of them left in the country. The beautiful, majestic, powerful bird is in great danger of not surviving for our great-grandchildren to see and admire!

Eagles have always been my favorite. But when I saw the video of their life in the wild, I fell in love with them. They are fierce and aloof, yet when they find their partner, they will stay with them for life (did I hear someone say the word loyal?).  They only breed every two years. The reason? They want to make sure first that their eaglet can live on its own before they make another eaglet! Hah! These eagles surely know how to make family-planning. But that's also one of the factors of their decline in population... :(

If you also want to spread your wings and help the birds spread theirs, do it. It doesn't matter if you don't live in Davao. You can also help save them! Just click here.

Leaving Footprints Behind

The news about Philippine Army's 2nd Lt. Jose Delfin Khe's death had me thinking long and hard. Lots of people were devastated by his untimely death. Many said great things about him. He inspired those people who knew him. To them, he left a mark that they would always remember even when he's already gone.

It made me think of the dream I always had. I don't want to leave this world without making a significant footprint first. I want to be remembered. Even by just a single person. I want to touch people's lives. I want to contribute something, give my own share to the world.

Maybe that's the reason why I always kept a diary. Not to have something to spill out my emotions to, but to have details of what I was, what I am, and what I will be. So that hopefully, someone from generations to come might discover it someday and my name will not be forgotten. Because I left something.

I don't want to leave this world with lots of possessions. Material things are worthless once you're gone. I want to leave a footprint that people will remember as mine. No matter how small it may be.

We could never make a big impact to the billions of people without first starting to those who are close to us. Friends, family... they are the ones who know us best. Treat them right, inspire them in your own special way, and live your life the way you want people to remember it. You won't have another chance to change your actions once you're gone.

Go and make beautiful footprints in the sand!